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","datePublished":"2018-04-05","dateModified":"2024-02-20","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.mostreal.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.mostreal.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a4f7f6499f3b2a0764d0773f1f5d74780987cfbea7e736c0e74f6185bb257971?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a4f7f6499f3b2a0764d0773f1f5d74780987cfbea7e736c0e74f6185bb257971?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"mostreal.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.mostreal.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288366_w16569_t1528216228.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.mostreal.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288366_w16569_t1528216228.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.mostreal.sk\/kedysi-to-bolo-inak\/","about":["Zvierat\u00e1"],"wordCount":496,"articleBody":"Nezriedka sa stret\u00e1vame s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee pod jednou strechou \u017eij\u00fa spolu viacer\u00e9 gener\u00e1cie. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 in\u00e9 zvyky, ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 svoju povahu a\u00a0to sa sk\u00f4r \u010di nesk\u00f4r prejav\u00ed. \u010ci \u010dlenovia takejto rodiny chc\u00fa, \u010di nechc\u00fa, sk\u00f4r \u010di nesk\u00f4r sa m\u00f4\u017eu objavi\u0165 drobn\u00e9 \u010di v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie nedorozumenia, ktor\u00fdch pr\u00ed\u010dinou b\u00fdva najm\u00e4 v\u00fdchova det\u00ed a\u00a0vn\u00fa\u010dat. Vety typu: \u201eKe\u010f si ty bol mal\u00fd…\u201c, alebo \u201eToto by som ja tebe nikdy nedovolil!\u201c po\u010d\u00favaj\u00fa dne\u0161n\u00ed mlad\u00ed rodi\u010dia od svojich rodi\u010dov, ke\u010f vychov\u00e1vaj\u00fa svoje ratolesti ve\u013emi \u010dasto.\u00a0 Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee dne\u0161n\u00e9 deti s\u00fa trochu in\u00e9, ako boli kedysi. Zmenila sa doba, zvyky i\u00a0v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 met\u00f3dy.Dne\u0161n\u00ed rodi\u010dia s\u00fa niekedy mo\u017eno benevolentnej\u0161\u00ed ako by bolo \u017eiad\u00face, a\u00a0to sa potom podpisuje aj na spr\u00e1van\u00ed ich potomkov. A\u00a0toto nem\u00f4\u017eu vidie\u0165 star\u00ed rodi\u010dia, ktor\u00ed si ani len nevedia predstavi\u0165, \u017ee by im mohlo ich die\u0165a odvr\u00e1va\u0165 \u010di h\u00e1dza\u0165 sa o\u00a0zem, ako to vidia u\u00a0svojich vn\u00fa\u010dat. Stara\u0165 sa ale do v\u00fdchovy svojich vn\u00fa\u010dat b\u00fdva \u010dasto sk\u00f4r na \u0161kodu ako, na osoh. Je fajn, poveda\u0165 svoj n\u00e1zor, ale nemalo by sa tak dia\u0165 pred samotn\u00fdm die\u0165a\u0165om, preto\u017ee to cel\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu m\u00f4\u017ee jednoducho zneu\u017ei\u0165 vo svoj prospech. Rovnako i\u00a0fakt, \u017ee narast\u00e1 nap\u00e4tie medzi dospel\u00fdmi vyvol\u00e1va negat\u00edvne em\u00f3cie i\u00a0u\u00a0det\u00ed, a\u00a0to sa n\u00e1sledne odr\u00e1\u017ea i\u00a0na ich spr\u00e1van\u00ed. Dospel\u00ed by svoje n\u00e1zory mali rie\u0161i\u0165 osamote a\u00a0bez zvy\u0161ovania hlasu. Treba si uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee to, ako rie\u0161ime situ\u00e1cie a\u00a0konflikty my dospel\u00ed, \u201eodkukaj\u00fa\u201c a\u00a0zrkadlia i\u00a0deti.\u00a0Aj pr\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 rozmazn\u00e1vanie \u0161kod\u00edNiektor\u00ed star\u00ed rodi\u010dia hovoria, \u017ee rodi\u010dia s\u00fa na v\u00fdchovu a oni na rozmazn\u00e1vanie svojich vn\u00fa\u010dat. Do istej miery je to pravda, ale aj tu by mali by\u0165 ur\u010den\u00e9 jasn\u00e9 hranice, na ktor\u00fdch sa dospel\u00ed dohodn\u00fa. Ur\u010dite by toti\u017e nerobilo dobrotu, keby star\u00ed rodi\u010dia dovolili de\u0165om to, \u010do im predt\u00fdm rodi\u010dia zak\u00e1zali. Deti toti\u017eto vedia ve\u013emi r\u00fdchlo vyu\u017ei\u0165 situ\u00e1ciu a\u00a0za\u010da\u0165 tolerova\u0165 len t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed im dovolia presne to, \u010do ony chc\u00fa.Dospel\u00ed by mali pri v\u00fdchove det\u00ed i\u00a0vn\u00fa\u010dat dr\u017ea\u0165 za jedno, pri\u010dom rodi\u010dia by mali ma\u0165 hlavn\u00e9 slovo a\u00a0star\u00ed rodi\u010dia m\u00f4\u017eu predstavova\u0165 ist\u00fd \u201eporadn\u00fd org\u00e1n\u201c. Deti by mali vedie\u0165, kde s\u00fa ich hranice a\u00a0tie dodr\u017eiava\u0165. Toto platilo a\u00a0malo by plati\u0165 neust\u00e1le, bez oh\u013eadu na to, s\u00a0k\u00fdm vyrastaj\u00fa a\u00a0kto ich vychov\u00e1va. Genera\u010dn\u00fdm rozdielom a\u00a0rozli\u010dn\u00fdm n\u00e1zorom sa \u017eiadna rodina nevyhne, ale kompromisom a\u00a0rozumn\u00fdm rozhovorom sa d\u00e1 nepochybne v\u0161etko vysvetli\u0165 a\u00a0dohodn\u00fa\u0165.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.5\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kedysi to bolo inak…","item":"https:\/\/www.mostreal.sk\/kedysi-to-bolo-inak\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]